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Sticks and Stones

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. I remember learning to say this as a child if someone at school said something mean. Though I can’t recall anything mean they might have said, I know I used this phrase. Problem is, this isn’t true.

While I may not remember hurtful words from others, many people do. And words can be the deepest wounds leaving the greatest scars.

Words can be used to tear down, but they can also heal and build up.

“Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers” (Ephesians 4:29).

“Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones” (Proverbs 16:24 NASB).

God’s words bring healing.

“He sent His word and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions” (Psalm 107:20).

Words are important. The early church was encouraged by Paul’s words in his travels and letters. He told the Thessalonians to comfort one another with words. He told Timothy to hold fast to sound words.

Saying the right thing is important. We are given gifts so that we can serve one another and encourage one another, we have God’s word to share with others, but sometimes saying the right thing is saying nothing at all. Sometimes we only need to listen.

In Mark 9:2-7 Jesus was transfigured on the mountain before Peter, James, and John; and Moses and Elijah appeared with Him. Peter offered to make three tabernacles, one for each of them. But note the text says, “because he did not know what to say.” Then God spoke. “This is My beloved Son. Hear Him!”

When we don’t know what to say, maybe we should just listen. Listen to those we are called to encourage, and listen for God’s voice for what He wants us to say, if anything.

Be encouraged in your study of God’s word, and listen for His voice as you do. I’d love to hear what words have encouraged you lately.